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Now that I’m “officially” single I feel like I can again post openly about that part of my life.
I’m a bit concerned, actually, about some of the things I find. I am a member of an online dating site. It’s free…no cheesy guarantees of finding love in six months or it’s free, but really, really free. If your a moron or a dork, you’ll probably stay that way in your mom’s basement. I’ve been a member since before I got married so needless to say I’ve had to do some housecleaning since so much information has changed.
I find that there are many questions related to sex, which of course is to be expected but one reoccuring theme is rather disturbing to me. There seem to be a lot of people, men and women alike, who are obsessed with rape fantasies.
I just don’t get it.
BDSM or any light variation thereof, I get. I am generally a very outspoken woman, even overbearing at times and the last thing I want in the bedroom is to be in control. I’m very submissive and I like it that way. I enjoy the strength of a man and have no interest in dominating those activities.
Submissive is one thing. But rape? When I think of rape, I don’t get turned on. I think of bloody legs and busted lips. Tears and sleepless nights. While I have had the unpleasant experience of being somewhat violated, both by men I barely knew and friends/boyfriends alike, I don’t think any of them can compare to being violently torn apart from the inside out.
So am I missing something here? Because what I think these people are fantasizing about has little to do with rage and control than the “rape” they are idealizing.
Am I wrong?
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I tried the rape fantasy once.
ONCE.
It was horrible. There is nothing turn-on about it.
Submissive yes. Rape… No.
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