What is the most funny to me is that there is all of this hoopla made over shit that celebrities do.

Liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiike … Infidelity.

Um. That happens to e.v.e.r.y.o.n.e. for the most part. I don’t know many people who have not either cheated or have been cheated on. Myself included. On both ends.

But when a big shot … an idol … an ICON does it.

BLADOW!

Then come allllllllllllllllllll of the others. Out of nowhere.

“I fucked him!”
“She said she loved me!”
“I was his mistress from such and such and such and such!”

Is it truth? Is it money hungry? Where is the proof other than he said/she said?

But really, that is completely so far from the point. Actually, the point is … who the hell cares? But … then again … that is the actual problem. People actually care that Tiger Woods is a complete sex addict sociopath. They are emotionally invested in the fact that *gasp* Jesse James and Sandra Bullock are not the perfect couple that the press portrayed them to be.

Liiiiiiiiiiiiiike … Family issues.

People get divorced. It happens. How many people know someone who has been through a divorce/custody battle or have been through it themselves?

Exactly.

Yet. A celeeeeeebrity couple gets divorced and is dealing with custody issues … and …

BLADAW

One parent talks shit about the other in an “exclusive interview”.
So then the other finds an network to “exclusively” talk shit about the other parent.

Do they ever talk shit to each other? Or just publicly? What about their kids?

Again — besides the point. Dirty laundry is dirty laundry and it needs to be kept in the hamper and not out in the middle of the fucking street for everyone to see. And again … people actually give a shit. Emotionally attached to people whom we don’t even fucking know.

I have an idea. It might be far-fetched but I am going to reach for it. I am also gonna attempt to live it myself … because like I said at the very beginning, I read into this nonsense for amusement. Regularly.

You ready?

Maybe, just maybe … redirect that attention toward the relationships that actually matter.

Our own marriages/relationships.
Our own promises.
Our own kids.
Our own friendships.

We might all see a drastic improvement in them if we spent the time investing in our own, rather in the relationships of complete strangers.

I dunno. Just a thought.

What color is your toothbrush?
Did you have a nickname in high school?
Choose a storybook character that attracts you the most?

This blog is probably going to piss at least one person off. If you are the one person… well… I hope you get over it soon. Please feel free to share why you are pissed off and lets work it out. If you cannot do that, I get it.

Cei la vie.

I am going to stand up and say that, although I stand behind Rhianna and that I hope that she makes it through this and grows into a strong woman from this horrible experience, that I am fed up with all of the negative commentary being thrown in Chris Brown’s direction. Yep. I am.

What he did was horrible. Inexcusable. At least, what the media says he did. We have yet to hear both sides of the story. In fact, we have yet to really hear either side. It irritates me to no end that our media feeds on these people like piranha’s who haven’t eaten in months. Not even just these 2… any and all unfortunate situations are blown into these frenzies of rumors and gossip that when boiled down… hold little truth or accuracy to the original situation.

Chris Brown needs help. He needs to go and figure out what it is that triggered him to cross the line and put his hands on a woman. Rhianna or a stranger, he should have never crossed that line. He obviously should already know that you never put your hands on a woman. Unless she is begging you to … uhh … That is entirely other blog. My point is that he should have been taught by his mama to not beat the crap out of a female, no matter how much of a cunt she is being. Not that his mama is responsible for whatever took place between them. He simply should have already known. Honestly, I am pretty sure he already does/did know.I think that in the heat of passion, he made a very bad mistake.

In the heat of passion. How many of us have made a horrible decision in the heat of passion? Be honest. I have. My husband has. I wont even go into the detail of some of the inexcusable things that he and I have done to each other when anger and alcohol and love mix together into this powerful, uncontrollable super-emotion. It has taken over all of my better judgment. It has made me irrational and frankly, really fucking stupid.

The problem with me is that these 2 have not had an opportunity to figure it out. Whatever figuring it out means for them. How in the hell is anyone supposed to have a civil conversation with the one that they love in front of the bazillion flashes of a camera?! How is he supposed to truly show her remorse… if he cannot get a moment alone with her… to look into her eyes and let her see that he knows the mistake he made?

Not all acts of abuse turn into full on abusive relationships. How do I know? Because we have survived. D and I were abusive to each other. We were volatile and hurtful and frankly I dont always understand how we did it… but we did.

I think that it is time that we leave these 2 young people alone to sort out and try to salvage whatever they can from this horrible incident, and at least if nothing else, walk away from it amicably.

/Rant.

What have you done or said in the heat of passion that you regret?