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Missionary Misconceptions.

Oct 29, 2008 Friendship, I Forgot to Tag, Parenting, Relationships, Sex, Thoughts and Perceptions

Being that I am not having as much sex as my throbbing (i.e. screaming profanities at me) clitoris would like me to be having, I am pondering all things sexual in nature that much more than I do normally.

Like the discussion of positions in my myspace blog from yesterday. I think it is interesting that the ratio between women who like doggy-style and reverse cow-girl was almost 50/50. Some put them both down as equally favorite for similar reasons.

Missionary was not on anyone’s list. I think that is interesting because I personally enjoy missionary. Not because I am a ‘dead lay’ but because there are so many things you can do in the missionary position.

Addendum’s to the position if you will. Yeah, I went there.

For instance, I like to push my ankles as far behind my ears as possible when on my back. This position works well for anal pleasure… as well as vaginal penetration. The depth you can conquer doing this is by far (to me anyway) better than doggystyle, and if you are good enough at multi-tasking, you can see the penetration happen before your eyes. That is a turn on within itself.

Personally, missionary is good for me because I love to make eye contact with D when we are making love. I also love the skin to skin contact when we do it this way. I love the intimate contact; whether it be me kissing him or his neck… or him playing with my breasts. It is intimate and wonderful and the orgasm is that much more intense with the connection behind it. This could also be a similar description when I am on top. But, not reverse.

Another thing that I very much enjoy in this position is fucking him. Dont think it is possible? I disagree. A woman’s pelvis is extremely strong and if used properly, can dominate over a mans movements even in the missionary position. It pays off for the man as well, being that they have a different sensation when being on top and not being the initiator. Grab your partner by their hips or ass, and “stir the coffee”. Move your body beneath the pressure of his body methodically to grind the cock into a pretty intense orgasm.

If you have never experienced it, I would highly recommend trying this one out.

I have also experienced sub-missionary. Have you? Talk about arousing. Try allowing your partner to tie your wrists. This version works best when you have something to tie yourself to rather than tying your wrists together. This allows them to own that position, and your pleasure. Technically, it is the missionary position with a twist. The twist being you losing the control.

Missionary is equally amazing with the persons ass elevated. Pillows, even laying on a high bed, ass to the edge like a gynecologist chair with the man standing pretty much rocks my mother fucking socks off.

In my opinion, missionary is given a boring rap. If you have sworn it off completely due to unrealistic misconceptions… I suggest giving these twists a try. You could re-invent the missionary wheel without even trying.