Honest Tuesday’s: Say What You Need to Say.
Jan 18, 2010 Completely Hypothetical and Generally Specific, Current Events, DUH, Honest Tuesday's, Out of Wicked's Mouth, Ranteriffic, bitch
Hello! Welcome to Honest Tuesday’s. A place where you can come and be honest about shit that you would be dishonest about otherwise.
So this topic today is not something that I am admitting any dishonesty about. Because if any of you know me, you know that I am 99.9% gonna tell your ass about yourself. Unless 1) I might get fired or 2) I might go to jail. And even then I have taken the risk.
Anyway…
Sometimes I feel like I am surrounded by cowards. People who are so scared to just tell someone how they feel.
“We really aren’t friends.”
“I am in love with you but I am too stubborn to say it first.”
“I didn’t invite you out for a reason.”
“No. I am NOT going to call you.”
“I think you are repulsive and would rather not have sex than have sex with you.”
“I am cheating on you.”
“If I wanted you to show up, I would have invited you.”
“We don’t hang out because your significant other is a complete fucking douchebag.”
“Your breath smells like someone took a shit in your mouth.”
“I hate it when you constantly interrupt me in the middle of a sentence.”
I mean seriously?! Are you that afraid of being a real person to where you lead them along their merry way … believing something to be true that is complete and total bullshit? How is someone ever going to be able to fix that annoying thing that they have no clue is in fact annoying in the first place?
Say what you need to say. You are doing no one any favors by keeping it to yourself. Especially not the person whom you are keeping it from.
Furthermore, how asshole-ish are you to talk shit about a person behind their back? Anything you have to say behind their back … you need to figure out how to say it to their face. What are we? 12th graders? Is this fucking Mean Girls but in real life?
Say what you need to say. Fuck sparing someones feelings. Fuck being polite. Fuck smiling in someone’s face in an effort to not cause a scene or drama.
Just fucking tell them. I am over hearing about how so’n’so is blah blah blah all of the time. If you don’t fucking like them, then God damn tell them already.
Or don’t. Whatever. You are the one being a fake, 2 faced fucking asshole. Not me.
Fuck.
Get your weekly honesty out. Say sumpin!
Tags: high school, Honest Tuesday's, honesty, mean girls, say what you need to say
January 18th, 2010 at 22:57
ok im treating this like friday letters haha mostly because its easier for me,which is the most important thing OBVIOUSLY
dear frenchie,
Fcuk you for having a gf damnitttt youre so cute and funny and nice and and and..:(
dear guy i met randomly at my co workers house then found on accident on fb like 4 hours later,
message meeee and think im cuteeeee. or atleast message me. rawwwwrrr.
im starting to understand why people say the depo shot is bad for you. last week i had break through bleeding all week,today i wanted to stab someone i was sooo moody. i am starting to feel a little emotionally unstable due to the lack of aunt flow in my life. last week,someone at work told me they couldnt have an item ready by the date i told the customer and i broke down in like 5 seconds later. really wtf. i realize i am emotional but not THAT emotional.
btw i love that song by john mayer. say what you need to sayyyyy. i feel nostaglic and mushy.i dont like it. im happy so happy but the female inside of me is trying to break itself out grrrrr. thats all
happy monday! bleh.
LivingWicked Reply:
January 18th, 2010 at 23:01
Maybe you should not have the shot. I hated it.
I have the Mirena and I <3 it.
dani Reply:
January 18th, 2010 at 23:05
apparently my lack of child birthing makes the dr question me being able to handle having that microscopic piece of plastic inserted into my baby maker. thats what i was originally going to do then they convinced me this depo shot was a good idea.
LivingWicked Reply:
January 18th, 2010 at 23:06
That is some bullshit.
dani Reply:
January 18th, 2010 at 23:08
i know right?! apparently i have to quit taking this shot in like a year so maybe ill try discussing this mirena thing again. i’m tired of being moody lol. bring on the painnnnn!
LivingWicked Reply:
January 18th, 2010 at 23:11
It really doesn’t hurt.
January 19th, 2010 at 00:16
I don’t have many honesty gripes for the week. Although my folks have proven to think since I am without husband or family that they never have to help me out…but I’m used to that. I have never been the squeaky wheel…but that has also turned into me feeling afraid to ask for help…
I think they need to re-evaluate seeing as how I have lived in Boston 10 years and they havent as so much visited me once.
January 19th, 2010 at 03:37
The last few weeks have been all about honesty for me. I told you that the ex and I have been talking – possibly trying to work things out – still torn on that but I’m feeling good that we are least having these discussions. And for the first time in a long time, I am not afraid to ask the tough questions. As much as I have wanted the truth in the past, I was afraid of it and that fear is gone. It means that I’ve heard things that were really hard to hear and I’ve gotten angry and cried a lot but in the end, I’m just relieved to finally have the truth. When it’s out there like that, at least I know it is then up to me what to do with him, I’m not living in some fantasy world where feelings are based on lies. It’s good to live honestly.
January 19th, 2010 at 05:48
yep, that’s me a two faced asshole….always
January 19th, 2010 at 13:19
I am a fuckup… cannot get much more honest than that… I keep pretending life is good and trying to live it that way, if I believe it, I will become it… but fact is I should be thrown back for recycling…
January 19th, 2010 at 19:17
OK so I’m not sure exactly how this works, but there was a lot in this post that hit me so I’m just gonna vent for a second. I am all about honesty. I’ve played games in the past and I have made a vow that I would never do so again… it’s one I’ve actually kept but I am so fucking sick of other people’s bullshit. In a recent relationship I have decided to just say what I feel. I thought he was doing the same but apparantly not. If you don’t want something don’t say that you do. If you are not going to call, don’t say that you will. And if you have something to say, fucking just say it. Don’t play games. RARRR. Ok I feel a little better.
January 21st, 2010 at 13:48
Thank you for this post. It actually made me think about telling people how much I care about them that I otherwise would be too shy to express… xo
January 28th, 2010 at 14:48
i think i have been reading your blog for too long because i have found myself using the phrase “tell you about yourself” IRL! Ha! and i think i’ll continue using it, lol.