Mud-Dragger and Blog Plugs
Dec 18, 2008 Ranteriffic, Sound Off/Debate, Thoughts and Perceptions
I am pretty sure that several people reading this today will probably click the red X in the upper right hand corner and 1) be super butt-hurt 2) be confused 3) unsub/never return/stop being my friend.
If you are confused, that is a good thing.
If you get butthurt, and choose to do any of the other options I put out there, then ciao.
Not just one time, or any one person provoked this blog. Let me repeat that. This is stemmed from an accumulative group of emails, phone convos, text messages…. yadda. So’n'So didnt come to me and cry one time. SEVERAL So’n'So’s did. As in more than 3.
I blog about a lot of different things. Many of my topics come from real life instances that have happened to me, or people close to me. Some from what I read about or hear on the news. A great deal are more real than general, but I do my very best to keep the topics general and applicable to everyone who reads. That is how you maintain a solid readership. A group that can expect realistic, respectful real-life instances. It is how readership grows. To be respectfully controversial and relate-able to all walks of life.
If the subject doesnt fit you, then what is your incentive to stay? To keep reading? To interact with others? Exactly. There is none.
I rarely blog about someones specific problem unless it is my own. If and when I do, 1) I always ask permission. 2) I never disclose things that would call that person out or anyone else effected in the situation. 3) I always attempt to be respectful of both sides, regardless of my personal opinion.
If you feel like it is about you, maybe you should check your life.
Do you have a reason to feel guilty?
Is there a reason within yourself that you need to put in check?
You could pick up a Cosmo or a Vogue and read about a bazillion different relate-able instances to your life. Does that mean the author picked your specific brain and called your ass on the carpet to do so? No. They didnt. That is probably because there are many many other people in this world who have similar life happenings as you.
Stop avoiding responsibility for your own guilt and actions and blame shifting them on to what I write. It is silly and immature. And fucking aggravating.
Until tomorrow, when I find a new persons life to drag through the fucking mud… cause that is precisely what I do everyday… Check out these blogs.
Today is the day to rant. Go ahead and blast whomever you need to blast here. I know I did.
Tags: blame shifter, eve-101.com, guilt, pointless banter, PQ Nation, rant, so'n'so, unsubscribe, vanity
December 18th, 2008 at 11:35
So you aren’t blogging about me everything you blog about a whiny bitch?
Ohhhhhhh
Now I get it. LOL
PQNation’s last blog post..Thursday Thirteen: Years
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 11:42
LMAO! You’re so vain….
PQNation Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 11:51
I’d rather be vain than whiny.
Oh wait.
PQNation’s last blog post..Thursday Thirteen: Years
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:10
I think you might be both.
PQNation Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:18
I think so too.
PQNation’s last blog post..Thursday Thirteen: Years
December 18th, 2008 at 11:53
I am lost on this. I guess that’s a good thing? I’m not sure.
Anywho.
Hi, Love ya.
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:13
What?! No Rant?!
I look forward to your rants.
Heather G Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:18
I guess I’m not ranty today. Well, I am ranty because I haven’t gone to the gym today. But I shall, so rant averted. I am sure there is one just around the bend though.
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:32
i need to go to the gym.
i am snowed in though. also, i had a car emergency. so, now that we are all good. i will be back on my grind.
December 18th, 2008 at 12:15
It’s a good thing you don’t blog about me…..I’m so damn boring, you’d definitely lose all your readers!! heheheheh
And I know you talk about me…you can’t help yourself!!! lmao
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:36
You brat. You are as interesting as anyone else.
Cassie Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 12:40
lol
I am NOT a brat! hehehe
yeah, I know…..just had to interject a bit of sarcasm!!!
December 18th, 2008 at 13:40
Color me confused. Which I think in this case is a good thing.
My only rant today is about grown ass “professional” men acting like whiny, gossipy high school bitches.
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 13:41
e l a b o r a n t.
December 18th, 2008 at 13:51
Holding in for over two months and I want to blog it, but I can’t….
Just because you are a fan of someone, that does NOT give you the right to share in the celebrations of any of his family members, through a message to him, especially. Especially when his family is particularly private.
Just because you know the approximate day of his father’s birthday, does not give you the right to wish him happy birthday on his son’s public message boards. What it does do, is give you a license to look particularly stalkerish and creepy. So what if his birthday was celebrated with his son a year before? It was a private celebration in which two press photos were released. That means, it was still private and it was something that he did for his father, that you helped cheapen.
Also particularly stalkerish and creepy is the fact that you not only took photos of his family, but that you were willing to post them publicly. So what if they were “on stage” during the concert? There, honestly, was no place for them to sit, because everyone in the crowd would have been aware of where they were and would have attempted to make more of a fuss over them than you could possibly imagine or that was possibly necessary. They were not “on stage” as you so pointedly remarked, either… but they were removed to the side, and at no time, did he introduce his family to the crowd making it okay for you to take photos of them. That you still have them and share them freely is totally ridiculously unnecessary.
Say what you want to about me, but I know why I’m not so popular with that particular group and it has nothing to do with my “attitude”. I know the score, much more than you think I do, so please, for the love of God, stop TRYING so damn hard to make it look like you know him or are in the know because some psycho girl who writes totally unnecessary semi-pornographic materials regarding said man operates a fan site and can contact his management team for verification of rumours. It’s not that hard to do.
Also, since you insist on stalking the best person that you all think has access to him, after a show, perhaps you should better think about it this way: His friend, as all of his friends are, is a kind man… and he knows that being short or rude or upset with you won’t do anything but tarnish not his reputation, but the man’s. He is a kind man, but he is also working, which is a concept most of you don’t seem to understand, when you interupt him for prolonged periods of time in the hopes of trying to get closer to the man.
Okay, crazies… you can continue hating me now….
……..
Wow… that felt good…
LivingWicked Reply:
December 18th, 2008 at 13:57
I feel lighter just from reading it!
I am so happy you feel comfortable on my blog enough to just let it out.
December 18th, 2008 at 17:12
Shrug.
Some people REALLY never got taught that the world does not revolve around them. You keep doing what you do cause you are damn good at it. Duck the haters.
December 18th, 2008 at 17:13
Lmao- stupid auto correct- fuck the haters- rather
December 18th, 2008 at 18:57
wow… you mean peeps have been up in your face blaming you for..umm.. blogging about their lives? what? seriously? peeps causin YOU grief and drama? as if a girl ain’t got enough of her own right?
GAH. Some people’s kids.
Seriously, you should blog me tho.
I’ve been told it’s WAY better than any soap opera. and sometimes, more Go have a drink and go take all your frustration out on your man
(They love it when we do that bwahahahaha)
December 18th, 2008 at 21:19
wow… i am officially confused
so ummm…. i am going to blast… ummm… shiiiiiiiiiiit… i am totally coming up empty
sorry
December 19th, 2008 at 13:58
Wow!!!! Really?!
I bet they think this song about them, too, huh?
December 19th, 2008 at 17:05
no worries and honestly have no one I want to blast today..didn’t say I didnt hve someone..just dont want to do it…trying to be positive cause I’m coming from your compliments blog and said I was going to be positive from now on…
ahahah
love you woman!
xoxo